Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I’ll try again tomorrow.
This is a powerful and recognised quote by the author Mary Anne Radmacher. It has redefined the notion of bravery and what it really is.
When people think of courage the first thing that comes to mind is loud, dramatic or heroic actions. That is what courage is. However this quote argues that the true meaning of courage often lives in a quiet persistence. Everyday simple decisions to keep going when everything is telling you to give up or quit.
How does it apply
- Public speeches
The common perception of courage would be of people who give public speeches, or marching in protests. It can also be seen as one person speaking up in a meeting making a point when no one else was willing to.
- Physical actions
These actions are publicly seen and are to be respected and acknowledged. They include firefighters or paramedics among others. What about the people who stay in a an abusive relationship as they know they need to have time to protect their children and gain resources to leave successfully. They are not recognised or even seen but are so courageous.
- Loud dramatic gestures
When someone does something deemed courageous not for the deed itself but for the adoration or attention. There are so many people who never look for attention they are too busy living their lives. They consistently show up and care for a sick or ill relative. They bravely face situations that would be overwhelming for most of us.
These are only some examples of situations that highlight the importance of noticing the two sides of courage.
Why does it matter
Musing over this quote broadens the definition of bravery. It recognizes the everyday person who acts responsibly, ethically and with compassion without requiring fanfare.
- Validates hidden struggles
Behind closed doors so many are struggling with situations or health issues that they do not broadcast. Accepting the fact that courage does not always roar publicly reduces the stigma that these hidden heroes endure.
- Encourages inclusive support
As it is noticed it can motivate family, friends, members of the community or colleagues to celebrate or acknowledge the actions and provide support when needed.
- It prevents burnout
When society only praises the publicly brave heroes who roar the loudest it undervalues the importance of the quiet heroes within society. They have as much value as the loud ones. Some may say they have more as there are definitely more of them. Most do not even notice the quiet actions of the superheroes. They may not be directly helping society but by facing their situations themselves on a consistent manner they are.
- Provides motivation to keep going
It is difficult to admit you are tired and choosing to keep going regardless of your pain or lack or strength.
Looking for a job when you have been rejected or ignored so many times. Relying on your inner strength to pick yourself up and try again and again.
Courage sometimes whispers
Courage does not always roar or is public. The dramatic heroes that are portrayed on TV. They do have their role in society and are essential. Sometimes courage is quiet and unseen or unnoticed by the masses. The quiet, steady choices that people make on a daily basis. They speak up when it is uncomfortable for them. Others may continue through chronic pain to be there for others in need. Leave themselves last in helping others. These quiet acts of courage are just as brave. They require the same amount of inner resolve and strength just without the public recognition.
Sometimes the most powerful acts of bravery happen in private. Courage does not always need an audience.
